http://invasiondenied.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] dramadramaduck2011-03-21 05:10 pm
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[Ryo is apparently hopping on the anon bandwagon. But while the community's taken over his computer, he might as well make the best of it, right?]

It's only natural to care about the people you work a lot with, isn't it?
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[identity profile] forgerofdreams.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
Depends. How much do you care about them?

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Well, quite a bit, I guess. But don't you think it's normal? To care a lot about the people you spend most of your time with.

[identity profile] forgerofdreams.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess it depends. Do you mean care like 'I would trust them with my life' kind of bond, or is it more like 'I want more than a coworker relationship with them'?

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Either, honestly. I've just never worked this closely with someone before, but close bonds are a natural result of that sort of thing, wouldn't you think?

[identity profile] forgerofdreams.livejournal.com 2011-03-24 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose. I mean, depends on the job, really. And what kind of closeness you're looking for.

[identity profile] c-o-u-r-a-g-e.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
The fact that you're asking means you're unsure. Does someone at work make you feel uncomfortable?

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Uncomfortable isn't really the word.

[identity profile] c-o-u-r-a-g-e.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 09:06 am (UTC)(link)
Confused? About why you care so much?

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-22 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Mmhm.

[He's going to keep it as vague as he can; he doesn't want to give himself away.]

About.. a lot of things. But I'd say it's normal, right?

[identity profile] c-o-u-r-a-g-e.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
That all depends. On if your care is... friendly. Or something more.

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Either or. Sorry, I'm not trying to be dodgy - it was just meant to be a very broad question.

[identity profile] c-o-u-r-a-g-e.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
It didn't seem like a broad question to me. It seemed very much like... a personal question.

You're under the guise of anonymity, what's the worst that could happen?

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm honestly not sure what I was trying to figure out. I guess I just haven't really had time for real introspection lately.

[identity profile] c-o-u-r-a-g-e.livejournal.com 2011-03-25 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
Well, go on. Don't be shy. Introspect away. I find it helps to bounce things off of people, even if they're strangers.

[identity profile] adorkable-son.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure. Everyone is different, you can form good bonds with co-workers like you could at school, I think.

Ashiwara-san is my friend, I think. Maybe.

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Is Ashiwara-san someone you work with, then?

[identity profile] adorkable-son.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, we are both pros now that I became one too. He's my father's student and I've known him since I was three or four.

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
It's good that you guys are close, then. Where do you work?

[identity profile] adorkable-son.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
We're Go professionals. It's my first year, and I'm on a winning streak. I'm just glad I can still get my school work done.

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-24 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
So you're still in school?

Good. It's important to find a balance between work and school like that.

[identity profile] adorkable-son.livejournal.com 2011-03-24 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
Everyone is required by law to finish middle school.

[identity profile] 27ths-horndog.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Hm. Depends on what you mean when you say "care about".

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
[Agh, he was hoping this question wouldn't catch Dee's attention. :<]

In any sense of the word. I didn't have any specifics in mind.

[identity profile] 27ths-horndog.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, then yeah. Unless you're a heartless bastard, you should care about them at least a little. I mean, I'm not saying you should fall in love with all of them... But if you do, then that's cool too.

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
"That's cool, too"?

[He is not yet ready to face this shit about himself, Dee.]

Sounds like you have experience.

[And he wonders why the hell he is asking this. :(]

[identity profile] 27ths-horndog.livejournal.com 2011-03-23 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Well...yeah. I'm kinda head over heels for a guy I work with at the moment. It'd be kinda hypocritical for me to tell you that that sorta thing weren't okay, y'know?

[identity profile] invasiondenied.livejournal.com 2011-03-24 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Well, that makes sense. You don't think it's a little weird to have romantic feelings for a coworker?

[identity profile] 27ths-horndog.livejournal.com 2011-03-24 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
No, man. You like who you like. It's not like you've got all that much conscious decision over who you fall for, y'know?
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