[anonymous]

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

I have a question. If you have someone you care about, maybe a lot, what do you do to show them that?

((All comments will be anon.))

Comments

[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

Yoru and I have sex when we want to show we care about each other.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

Is mating sex the only way you show him you care?

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[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

I hug him and kiss him, too!

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

Is that the only way someone can show someone else they care?

[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

Well... You can tell them you care, and do things for them.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

What kind of things?

... I never really known someone in this way before.

[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

Whatever they want. Like favors and stuff.

Then you're experiencing how great it is to really care about someone for the first time! It feels wonderful, doesn't it?

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

Anything?

I guess it is...I've really only lived with my family before.

[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

If you really care about them, you must be willing to do whatever they want.

True love is so much better than family.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

... I guess I'll have to.

Gah, this is difficult.

[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

Why is it difficult?

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

It just seems like a lot of things to do.

[sunao-punch.livejournal.com]

It's easier than it sounds.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

I hope so.

[51stcentury]

Well, a little bit of flirting wouldn't hurt, I think.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

I don't know how to flirt.

[51stcentury]

Well, you could start by going out of your way to do things you wouldn't necessarily do for the person normally.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

Oh. Why didn't I think of that?

[51stcentury]

Well, it's hard to think of things when it involves someone you care about "maybe a lot". Sometimes you need a little outside help.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

Sometimes you do?

[51stcentury]

Yep. Even I need a little bit of outside perspective to help me realize what's really important to me.

[unluckychimera.livejournal.com]

Telling them's probably a good start. Failing that, let someone who likes to interfere find out - they'll probably find some incredibly complicated way to make it happen.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

He already knows. We're...I guess you could say we're together. But I don't know what to do now.

[unluckychimera.livejournal.com]

I'm still sort of trying to figure that out myself. You could try giving him something.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

I could try making him something. I'm good with things like that.

[unluckychimera.livejournal.com]

Worth a try.

[karates_doors]

Spending time with them is a good way to show you care. So is doing things for them. Like making little gifts or helping them with something they're struggling with.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

I guess I can try to spend more time with him. And I am good at making things...

[karates_doors]

Then I'm sure he'd like that.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

I guess he would, wouldn't he?

[karates_doors]

Good luck!

[prettyasa-pichi.livejournal.com]

Tell them, of course.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

Like I said, I've already done that...I just don't know what to do next.

[prettyasa-pichi.livejournal.com]

Oh, you don't have to worry about that! Now you can do whatever you like together.

[bitofagypsy.livejournal.com]

Be there for them.

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

So I've been told.

[bitofagypsy.livejournal.com]

A good start.

[myeggo-ispreggo.livejournal.com]

You could try, oh I don't know...telling them that?

[eboshimustdie.livejournal.com]

You think I haven't? ... We're already in a relationship. I just don't know what to do next.

[myeggo-ispreggo.livejournal.com]

Well then...keep going with that talking idea. I mean...ask him about it or something. Communication and..all that good jazz.

God, I'm such a hypocrite.

[shinra-sucks.livejournal.com]

Can't you just tell them?

[Also Anon]

[is-primes-pants.livejournal.com]

That's a very good question....

[threadmaster.livejournal.com]

Perhaps you can take part in things that he likes to enjoy; even if it's something that you may normally not like to do.

[shia-o-shima.livejournal.com]

There are many ways to show someone you care. One way is to simply be there for them whenever you can.

[heavenly-home.livejournal.com]

In the little ways that they may not notice. To always be there for them.

[pow-hammer.livejournal.com]

Spend time with them and let them know how important they are to you.