ext_229839 ([identity profile] originaldragoon.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] dramadramaduck2010-12-22 02:05 pm
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Say you know someone whom had someone very dear to them pass away. As a result they are having trouble letting go and moving on, especially when the anniversary of the death comes around. How would you advise them in letting go?
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[identity profile] emberandash.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
They won't.

[identity profile] originaldragoon.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
So you would not even bother to give them advise to help the move on?

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
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I don't know.

It would depend on who they are to me, and who the person who died was to them.

[identity profile] originaldragoon.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
The person who passed away was someone they loved and was planning on spending the rest of their life with.

[identity profile] originaldragoon.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
I am saying 'getting over it,' exactly. More like moving on.

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
... They won't do that, either.

[identity profile] originaldragoon.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
And if they want to and do not know how?

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know. Then maybe they will, if they want to.

[identity profile] darkmirror-vr2.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes people just can't let go. And sometimes that might be the best course.

[identity profile] originaldragoon.livejournal.com 2010-12-23 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
How is it for the best?
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