anonymous ; text

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I cheated on my fiancé.

Comments

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

Do they know?

text | anon forever ;

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No.

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

It's important to have trust with your fiancee. I think you know you shouldn't have cheated but if you like, you'll make it worse.

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( ooc; sorry about the delete. idk how that comment posted twice. )

I can't even explain it to him. He doesn't know about this place.

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

(ooc: :) No worries, LJ is being wonky.)

You cheated with someone here?

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( ooc ; it is ;; )

Yes.

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

Even if you can't tell him who or how, it's very important you tell him. He deserves to know.

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I've already hurt him so much.

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

I don't think you've told us because you were happy about it. We do make mistakes but we have to take responsibility for them.

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I'm just so afraid of hurting him more.

T_T I'm sorry their first interaction is like this, she's usually very supportive, I promise

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

Lying so he doesn't know isn't going to help him. If he founds out, he'll be hurt so much more.

I know it's hard but it's something that really should be done.

aww it's not your fault it's a sad situation ;;

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I know you're right. I'm just scared of telling him.

[makewayforroze.livejournal.com]

It...will be hard. I don't know what happened but if you can make it through this and learn from it, it doesn't mean everything's over.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

Isn't that the norm?

text | anon forever ;

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Not where I'm from.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

Then don't tell anyone? It's not that hard.

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That doesn't make the guilt go away.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

You're only guilty if someone catches you.

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The emotion guilt.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

Can't help you there.

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I'll probably never get rid of it anyway.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

I'm pretty sure there are more important things to be guilty about.

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I feel those too.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

Sounds like a personal problem.

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Then why are you talking to me?

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

I dunno, I was offering some wisdom or something or the other.

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I'm still waiting for that part.

[soloisms.livejournal.com]

Hey, I gave it to you. Either take it or leave it.

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Don't tell anyone wasn't wise.

[glass-secret.livejournal.com]

Oh boy... Why did you do it?

text | anon forever ;

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A lot of complicated reasons.

[negative-five.livejournal.com]

Why?

text | anon forever ;

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It's hard to explain.

[negative-five.livejournal.com]

You must want to talk about it at least a little if you turned to the community.

[chaos-godess.livejournal.com]

Congratulations.

text | anon forever ;

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I wasn't bragging.

[chaos-godess.livejournal.com]

Then what do you want form us? Pity? That we make you feel worse?

[notasinglelady]

oh god, here we go again.....does your fiancé know?

text | anon forever ;

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Where does everyone live that this is common?

No.

[notasinglelady]

We all has been, or are, teenagers.

Will you tell him/her?

[pinball-baby.livejournal.com]

Wow. Not cool.

text | anon forever ;

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I didn't go in with the intentions of cheating.

[pinball-baby.livejournal.com]

That's a bit better then, I guess.