Advice?

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

How do you get somebody to notice you?

I mean really head-over-heels-falling-in-love notice you.

Comments

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Could be...

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

What do you with people who say no to you?

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

When people say no? Well when I'm pressing for intimacy it's...well...you know what, no one has ever said 'no' to me in that sense before...oh wait, that's not true, he's said no to me topping plenty of times. Well I guess I'd do what you're doing and continue to press my advantage, but I'm an impatient kind of guy. I learn to accept the boundaries I guess, it's better than having nothing at all and that would be a shame...but it's a different matter for you though.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Yeah. I don't even remotely have a maybe.

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

I'm an optimistic guy, but I'm a logical guy. I deal with the facts not with the possibilities, so I can only tell you what I think is true. I'd really like to say something here that would give you some hope, because I don't want to come off like a total jackass...I could do it, but logically I know that would only hurt you more and I'd still be a jerk if your feelings were hurt. It's probably a difficult concept, but if he's rejecting you physically and emotionally even if there is the remotest possibility that he feels something deep down...well, it's just hard to say it, but you might be happier looking somewhere else in the long run.



[*Feels like apping Drake now just to temper Klavier's well meaning asshattery XD*]

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

..... Well, there kind of is this other guy I like the look of but I don't think he's all that interested either.

I'm an optimistic too, usually but sometimes I just feel a little lonely, you know.

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

You sure can pick 'em, huh? What kind of moves have you tried on him...the other guy?

That's natural enough, human beings are social creatures.


[It'd give me a chance to put all of those Drake icons sitting around on my computer to use. He needs more love :3]

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Uh... None really. But he is kind of dreamy.

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Maybe a transfer of your affections is in order?

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

What if it's another disappointment?

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Faint heart never won fair lady.

Well, it's not the perfect idiom, but you see what I'm getting at. Life is just riddled with disappointments, but optimistically you never know unless you try.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Yes! I have to keep trying!

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Exactly! Explore your options.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Thank you, handsome man!

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Heh, Klavier Gavin's fine, but I like handsome man even more. In any case you're welcome.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

I'm JJ. It's nice to meet you.

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Pleasure is mine.