Advice?

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

How do you get somebody to notice you?

I mean really head-over-heels-falling-in-love notice you.

Comments

[kings-pillar.livejournal.com]

...it's not something you can force. Either they love you or they don't. If you want a response from them though I would suggest confessing your feelings first.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

But what happens when you do that and they still shove you away?

[kings-pillar.livejournal.com]

Then I'm afraid there's nothing much you can do. Unless... they push you away because they are afraid of their own feelings.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Maybe they don't even know their own feelings. How do you unlock those?

[autophoenix.livejournal.com]

I don't think it's as easy as that.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

No?

[autophoenix.livejournal.com]

No. I mean, you can't force someone to be interested in you or in love with you. You kind of have to just let it happen, or it won't be about you it'll be about that image you're putting up.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Who said anything about force? I just need a nudge to happen.

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

Good question...I don't think I've ever had that problem...of course the falling head-over-heels thing, most of the time I think it's idol love.

It's pretty easy to make someone notice you, getting them to love you is an entirely different story.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

What sort of idol are you?

[herrglimmerous.livejournal.com]

A rock star, or as of late I'm an ex-rock star. I wanted to pour all of my efforts into my career as a lawyer so I had to give it up.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

You do look very handsome...

[notasinglelady]

Sing for him/her?

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

I think that may make him run away faster.

[notasinglelady]

Not fan of showtunes, hm?

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

The only time I sing is when I'm a little tipsy.

[brbgonefishin.livejournal.com]

Why not just tell the person how you feel?

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Tried that. He runs away.

[brbgonefishin.livejournal.com]

Sit him down. Tell him this is very important to you and ask him to hear you out. Then tell him exactly how you feel for him. He may not feel the same way, but at least he'll know you're serious.

[Not that he's thought about doing this a bajillion times with Shuu. Or anything.]

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[invasiondenied.livejournal.com]

That's something that just has to happen on its own, I think.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

But it doesn't happen.

[invasiondenied.livejournal.com]

You should try to find someone who cares about you for you.

[traptinacoffin.livejournal.com]

If there was any one way, someone would have discovered it by now, old chap. And he would be disgustingly rich.

[jjadams.livejournal.com]

Why would he be rich?

[traptinacoffin.livejournal.com]

Who wants to date a poor bloke?