[anonymous]

[archicheck]

Since this community is used to dealing with...odd relationship questions I thought I would ask one.

We all know that the community has a habit of cutting people off after a while. Sometimes they return with their memories and other times they return with a completely different set of memories. Sometimes they don't return at all.

My question is, if you were cut off from a person you really, truly cared about how can you find the strength to move on? Or should you even move on at all? Should you keep hoping that maybe someday they'll come back and you can just pick up where you left off?

Isn't thinking like that unrealistic? I'd like to believe it could happen, but I don't know if I can.

[ooc: please assume all tags are anon!]

Comments

[archicheck]

I don't think a day has gone by where I didn't think of it for at least a second.

[ anon ]

[seasaltzombie]

I'm sorry. I know how hard it is.

If it's okay, though, there's something I wanna say. I've... kinda been on the other side of this as well. I don't know anything about the person you lost, but... I know that even if they lost their memories - maybe especially if they have - they probably wouldn't want you to put the rest of your life on hold just for them, you know?

[archicheck]

...

I think he'd feel the same way. At least, I hope he would and I'm not just thinking it to make myself feel better.

[ anon ]

[seasaltzombie]

You must have known him pretty well, right? So I think you're right about that.

[archicheck]

I like to think I did. It's hard to be sure, really.