[anonymous]

[archicheck]

Since this community is used to dealing with...odd relationship questions I thought I would ask one.

We all know that the community has a habit of cutting people off after a while. Sometimes they return with their memories and other times they return with a completely different set of memories. Sometimes they don't return at all.

My question is, if you were cut off from a person you really, truly cared about how can you find the strength to move on? Or should you even move on at all? Should you keep hoping that maybe someday they'll come back and you can just pick up where you left off?

Isn't thinking like that unrealistic? I'd like to believe it could happen, but I don't know if I can.

[ooc: please assume all tags are anon!]

Comments

[archicheck]

I'm sorry to hear that.

[heavenlyhome]

Thank you. I might never stop missing him, but I know, at least, that he is well.

[archicheck]

You know that? For certain?

[heavenlyhome]

Perhaps you might call it faith, but I think, for him, it is nearly impossible that he is not.

[archicheck]

I'll always hope he's alright...but he always seemed to be getting into some kind of trouble.

[heavenlyhome]

Did he often sort it out?

[archicheck]

With plenty of close calls in between, yes.

[heavenlyhome]

But he was all right, in the end. People with such luck do not often lose it.

[archicheck]

Maybe. It's hard not to worry, though.

[heavenlyhome]

You don't ever stop, but. It becomes easier not to dwell.

[archicheck]

I'll keep that in mind. Thank you.

[heavenlyhome]

Of course. If you need to talk, at any point, please let me know.